Candice Simpkins, principal of Grandview Elementary in Bellevue, and Deborah Bradshaw, director of Early Childhood Education in Cincinnati Public Schools, helped the Enquirer answer questions that parents might have:

Question: A boy in my daughter's kindergarten class is constantly jumping up, talking loudly and interrupting learning. He also picks on my daughter and gets up close in her face. What should I do?

Answer: Talk to the teacher, and consider suggesting a seating arrangement to move your child away from the disruptive student. Volunteer to help in the classroom, so you can assist the teacher. Talk to the principal so authorities can set up informal observations to document the boy's behavior. If he continues to misbehave, the teacher, principal and that child's parents should meet to consider a behavior modification plan. Let the school handle discussions with the boy's parents; you should stay out of that.

Q: My 5-year-old son has been to the principal's office three times this year for fighting, and I'm afraid he's headed for a suspension or worse. What can I do?

A: First, talk to the principal and teacher. Try to get him to verbalize why he is misbehaving. It could be as simple as he's hungry or tired or worried about a change in family situation. Talk with the school counselor or psychologist and ask for a referral to outside agencies. The school might be able to work out a behavior plan with goals for improvement and rewards when your son behaves appropriately.