BY EARNEST WINSTON
The Cincinnati Enquirer
COVINGTON -- Cheryl Effiom has a hard time discussing death with her 6-year-old daughter, Tynee, who was diagnosed with kidney cancer in February. "We haven't talked much about death. I really don't know how to explain it to her," said Ms. Effiom of Covington. "I really don't know where to start."
That's one of the reasons Ms. Effiom is sending Tynee to a free, one-day camp for kids ages 6 to 12 who have been touched by cancer. Ms. Effiom hopes the topic will come up there.
The "Touched by Cancer" camp, which starts June 19 at President's Park in Edgewood, is believed to be the first of its kind in the state, said Pat Koepnick, spokeswoman for the American Cancer Society's Northern Kentucky Unit.
Tynee's 12-year-old sister, Vertis, will also attend the camp, because her mother thinks she can benefit. Neither Vertis nor her 19-month-old sister has cancer.
"It will be a wonderful day filled with fun and educational activities designed to let children share their feelings and experiences," said Kristi Peters, cancer control director for the American Cancer Society Northern Kentucky Unit.
Tynee is usually sick for about three days after her once-a-week chemotherapy treatment. As a result, Tynee has experienced loss of balance, trouble tasting and hair loss.
Ms. Effiom, who has not been in touch with any cancer support groups, is hoping the camp will be helpful for her two daughters. "I think that (Tynee) can learn and benefit a lot from it. I think that by her being around others (touched by cancer), it will help her," Ms. Effiom said. "I mean, if you see someone else with your problem, it is easier to accept it."
The camp is sponsored by the American Cancer Society and a coalition of health agencies. Volunteer doctors, nurses, counselors and other professionally trained volunteers will staff the camp. Organizers hope to continue the inaugural camp. Activities are being planned to get kids to talk about their situation. About 50 children are enrolled, although there is room for about 100 children. For more information about the camp, call the American Cancer Society at 647-2200.
