By Tish Williams
Enquirer contributor

LEBANON - There is no excuse for family abuse. These are words that staff and volunteers at the Abuse and Rape Crisis Shelter (ARCS) repeat often.

Ellen and Dean Froelich and Connie Wayne (from left) help others at the ARCS shelter. (Craig Ruttle photo) | ZOOM |

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month , an annual observance that began in 1981.

Ellen Froelich has been a shelter volunteer for 11 years. She has assisted hundreds of victims of domestic violence, starting with office work, then taking clients to court hearings and medical appointments.

"The work just grew and became an important part of my life," she said. She became so involved that her husband, Dean, joined in.

"Ellen's work just rubbed off," he said. "Now I often go to the shelter and offer a hand with fix-it projects, packing and delivery of packages at Christmastime, mailings and helping clients move into new quarters."

Connie Wayne, ARCS' volunteer specialist, says the shelter offers an intense support system.

"First, it is a safe haven where they find emotional support, counseling and legal assistance. They can stay 30 days or longer if necessary. Last year, 70 women and 95 children were housed at the shelter. We also work closely with the Interfaith Hospitality Network which helps homeless families find housing and get back on their feet."

Mrs. Froelich says there is no typical client.

"While most abuse stems from drug and/or alcohol abuse, the women come from every walk of life. Rich or poor, well-educated or little education, they all come to the shelter as a last plea for help," she said. "The first day here is the first day of a new beginning and new attitude -- the first step to a life that is safe and free of violence."

Throughout October, Mrs. Wayne is speaking to Warren County businesses, clubs, churches and organizations to explain ARCS programs. ARCS has 50 active volunteers. They will be honored at the annual Appreciation Dinner 6 p.m. Tuesday at Holiday Inn Express, Kings Island.

If you are interested in becoming an ARCS volunteer, call Mrs. Wayne at (513) 695-1751. The ARCS office is at 107 Oregonia Road, Lebanon.