For parents

1. Get Out of My Life, but First Could You Drive Me and Cheryl to the Mall? by Anthony Wolf (Farrar Straus & Giroux;$13)

2. The Strong-Willed Child by James Dobson (Tyndale House; $6.99).

3. Children Are From Heaven by John Gray (HarperCollins; $14).

4. Bringing Up Kids Without Tearing Them Down by Kevin Leman (Focus on the Family; $13.99).

5. The Way They Learn by Cynthia Tobias (Focus on the Family; $10.99).

6. Sticks and Stones: 7 Ways Your Child Can Deal with Teasing, Conflict, and Other Hard Times by Scott Cooper (Random House/Times Books; $13)

7. What to Do . . . When Kids Are Mean to Your Child by Elin McCoy (Reader's Digest Adult; $13.95)

8. The Sex Lives of Teenagers: Revealing the Secret World of Boys and Girls by Dr. Lynn Ponton (Plume; $13)

For teenagers

1. When Nothing Matters Anymore: A Survival Guide for Depressed Teens by Bev Cobain (Free Spirit; $13.95).

2. Life on the Edge by James Dobson (Word Publishing; $19.99).

3. Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls by Mary Pipher (Putnam; $14.95).

4. Changing Bodies, Changing Lives: A Book for Teens on Sex and Relationships by Ruth Bell Alexander (Times Books; $24)

5. Stay Strong: Simple Life Lessons for Teens by Terrie Williams (Scholastic; $15.95)