Find teachable moments throughout your child's day - while watching movies, listening to music or surfing the Internet - to discuss possible differences in your views of sexuality and relationships. The following tips can help you discuss these issues.

1. Find a quiet, private place to talk.

2. Be honest if you feel uncomfortable with the conversation.

3. Ask questions sparingly - avoid an interrogation.

4. Do not allow interruptions. Show your teen that the conversation takes priority.

5. Ask your teen how he or she defines sex and appropriate behavior.

6. Avoid preaching. Your teen will develop his or her own beliefs and values through your modeling, integrity and instruction over time.

7. Make your values clear. Tell your teen how you feel about sex and relationships.

8. Be clear about your expectations and encourage your children to come to you if they ever struggle to meet those expectations.

9. Tell your teenagers that they can use you as an excuse not to engage in certain activities.

10. Apologize if, in the past, you have not been clear about your expectations, have not exhibited integrity yourself or have been quiet about the issue.

11. Be prepared to answer some tough questions.

12. Most importantly, be sincere in wanting to listen to learn.

Source: The National Coalition for the Protection of Children and Families