The Enquirer wants to share the stories of the hundreds of Tristate men and women serving in the U.S. armed forces and their families. Stories are edited for length and clarity. If you are willing to share your story, contact reporter Howard Wilkinson. E-mail: hwilkinson@enquirer.com. Telephone: (513) 768-8388 Mail: Howard Wilkinson, 312 Elm St., Cincinnati, OH 45202