By Jeff Wilson
The Associated Press
LOS ANGELES - Ronald Reagan's fierce protector was there to the end.
Nancy Reagan watches as Ronald Reagan takes the oath of office Jan. 20, 1981.
Associated Press file
Nancy Reagan was at the Gipper's side for a half-century in his journey from motion pictures and head of the Screen Actors Guild to California governor and president of the United States. He called her Mommy. She called him Ronnie.
She was also there as caregiver when Alzheimer's disease sapped his memory in the sunset of his life at the couple's Bel-Air home. The nation's 40th chief executive knew it would be tough on her.
"I only wish there was some way I could spare Nancy from this painful experience," Reagan wrote in his poignant November 1994 letter to the American people disclosing he was diagnosed with Alzheimer's.
When asked about the president during those declining years, Mrs. Reagan seemed to force a smile before saying simply, "He's OK." There were no details, no elaboration.
"You know that it's a progressive disease and that there's no place to go but down, no light at the end of the tunnel," she wrote in the book I Love You, Ronnie, a collection of letters he wrote to her, published in 2000. "You get tired and frustrated, because you have no control and you feel helpless."
Yet Reagan's protector was always on the job. When he fell and broke his hip in January, 2001, she was with him at the hospital night and day.
Throughout their years together, Mrs. Reagan was her husband's champion, helpmate and closest adviser. Admirers and detractors alike insisted Nancy was the real power in the White House.
She laughed it off.
"This morning I had planned to clear up the U.S.-Soviet differences on intermediate-range missiles but then I decided to clear out Ronnie's sock drawer instead," she once joked with an audience.
Ronnie was always paramount.
"I make no apologies for telling him what I thought," the former first lady wrote in her 1989 book, My Turn: The Memoirs of Nancy Reagan.
While working as an actress at MGM, she met Reagan in 1950 through an old family friend, director Mervyn LeRoy. She had gone to him with a problem - her name had been placed in an advertisement in a list of people she considered left wing. LeRoy called Reagan, the president of the Screen Actors Guild, who discovered Nancy's name had been put in the ad by mistake.
They discussed it over dinner and were married two years later, March 4, 1952. He was 41, she was 30. It was her first marriage, his second. Patti was born in October and Ron six years later. Reagan had two children from his previous marriage to actress Jane Wyman, Maureen and Mike.
She and Reagan made one movie together, a 1957 World War II story called Hellcats of the Navy.
During Reagan's final years, Mrs. Reagan and a nurse cared for him. First quietly, later publicly, she lobbied for funding for stem cell research, which could some day help fight Alzheimer's.
"Ronnie's long journey has finally taken him to a distant place where I can no longer reach him," she said at a fund-raiser in May. "Because of this, I'm determined to do whatever I can to save other families from this pain. I just don't see how we can turn our backs on this."
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